27 Aug Tommy Kilpatrick
After Divorce in His 50s: Life’s New Chapter Brings More Joy, More Energy, and More Adventure!
Bonus: Around 34 minutes into our talk, Tommy shares his secret for wiping out certain bank credit card debt you thought you’d be stuck with forever! …
Tommy Kilpatrick – Father After 50 (still trying to get custody), Exciting, Fulfilling Life after 50!
When Tommy’s 28 year marriage ended, he stepped into an unfamiliar world with no guarantees. His journey carried him across the U.S., through diverse communities, and onto a Jeepney in the Philippines, where chance became love. Along the way, he discovered renewal in simplicity, courage in uncertainty, and vision in alternative paths to health and finance. Tommy’s story proves it’s never too late to rebuild, reconnect, and reimagine life.
Episode Summary:
After 28 years of marriage, the wife said, “Get out and take the dog with you.” Stepping into uncharted territory in his mid 50’s, Tommy reveals how he went from a high-pressure life as a commercial diver to manicurist, to discovering peace through minimalism and voluntary homelessness. His story is a testament to resilience and the pursuit of authenticity, showing how he navigated societal pressures and financial strains by choosing a path less traveled. From living with diverse communities across the United States to mastering unexpected skills, Tommy’s journey is an inspiring reminder that life can take profound turns at any age.
The episode also whisks us away to the Philippines, where a serendipitous encounter on a Jeepney sparked a beautiful relationship. This chance meeting evolved into a partnership grounded in a shared interests, exploring language and culture with plans for creating impactful work. We further discuss a groundbreaking social initiative aimed at addressing drug addiction in Maine, offering a fresh start in Argentina through community-driven solutions and culinary innovation.
Wrapping up, we explore a variety of alternative health and financial strategies that challenge conventional wisdom. From the healing potential of hypobaric chambers and hydroponic gardening to innovative legal tactics for debt elimination, listeners are invited to broaden their horizons with unconventional solutions. Tommy’s experiences and insights offer hope and practical approaches for those seeking change and growth in life’s second act, making this episode a treasure trove of resilience and creativity.
Chapters:
(0:00:00) – Life Changes After 50
(0:11:40) – Revolutionary Concepts in Community Development
(0:22:29) – Alternative Healing and Hydroponic Gardening
(0:32:25) – Debt Elimination and Legal Tactics
(0:43:55) – Alternative Health Solutions on a Budget
(0:49:47) – Finding Hope and Solutions After 50
Chapter Summaries:
(0:00:01) – Life Changes After 50 (12 Minutes)
This chapter explores the transformative journey of a man whose life underwent significant changes after the age of 50. Initially working as a commercial diver and then a manicurist, he shares how his marriage flourished with two successful children before facing challenges with societal expectations and financial pressures. Choosing a path of voluntary poverty, he became homeless and embraced a minimalist lifestyle, which led him across various parts of the United States, living with different communities and learning new skills. His experiences included running a farm without modern conveniences and a complex relationship with a woman in Maine, which ultimately unraveled due to personal and financial conflicts. Despite these challenges, his journey is marked by resilience and a commitment to living authentically, highlighting the profound shifts that can occur later in life.
(0:11:40) – Revolutionary Concepts in Community Development (11 Minutes)
This chapter takes us on a journey through a unique relationship that blossomed in the Philippines, leading to a deeper exploration of language and culture. We explore how a chance meeting on a Jeepney evolved into a loving partnership, with plans for a future enriched by shared passions, including writing a book on learning Hiligaynon and creating artwork. We also discuss a broader vision of social change, focusing on innovative solutions to combat drug addiction in Maine by relocating individuals to Argentina, providing them with new opportunities for citizenship and personal growth. The plan is to leverage food resources and a creative culinary initiative called Art You Eat Gallery to support a self-sustaining community model, highlighting the power of collaboration and resourcefulness in addressing social issues.
(0:22:29) – Alternative Healing and Hydroponic Gardening (10 Minutes)
This chapter explores various unconventional treatments and methods for health and wellness. We discuss the use of a hypobaric chamber to stimulate the body, and the benefits of a foot bath ionizer and energized distilled water with reduced surface tension to improve cellular absorption. The Rife machine is introduced as a frequency-based device to target bacteria, and the conversation touches on the importance of detoxification through serious fasting. We also cover additional holistic approaches such as essential oils, relaxing music, chi machines, and far infrared dry saunas for detoxification and healing. There’s an intriguing mention of a car running on water through electrolysis, highlighting innovative uses of water. Finally, we consider how these methods contribute to detoxifying and oxygenating the body, enhancing overall health and aiding in conditions like cancer, while also briefly mentioning the impact of drinking this specialized water on weight loss and hydration.
(0:32:25) – Debt Elimination and Legal Tactics (11 Minutes)
This chapter takes a fascinating look at the unconventional methods of addressing credit card debt through a lens of alleged fraud by banks. We explore the story of an individual who challenged three banks in federal court over what he identified as fraudulent credit card practices. Despite an initial courtroom setback, he shares how his credit report improved and the debts were removed. He further explains how he helps others recognize themselves as victims of alleged banking fraud, using legal tactics to challenge credit card companies and improve credit scores. We discuss the concept of distinguishing between “true” and “fake” credit cards, emphasizing the absence of invoices from banks as a key indicator of alleged fraud. Additionally, there’s a focus on empowering individuals to handle their credit issues independently, framing these situations as opportunities for legal counteraction rather than traditional debt resolution.
(0:43:55) – Alternative Health Solutions on a Budget (6 Minutes)
This chapter explores innovative solutions for legal, financial, and health challenges. We discuss the ProSend Legal Society Private Membership Association, which offers affordable legal services for members, allowing them to access legal assistance without public affiliation. Additionally, we touch on creative business ideas like converting food waste into profitable products, establishing a culinary training program, and providing access to commercial kitchens. We also highlight strategies for addressing health issues, such as building affordable hyperbaric chambers and the benefits of intermittent fasting and sugar reduction. This episode offers a fascinating look into unconventional approaches to problem-solving and personal growth.
(0:49:47) – Finding Hope and Solutions After 50 (1 Minutes)
This chapter emphasizes the importance of keeping an open mind, especially when facing challenging situations. We explore how maintaining a positive outlook can lead to positive outcomes, even after the age of 50. Tommy shares insights on finding hope in difficult times and discusses the possibilities of achieving health, securing free food and housing, and managing credit card debt. The conversation concludes with an invitation to reach out and have fun while navigating life’s challenges, reinforcing the power of openness and optimism.
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